Here’s how you do it.
The first step is to become their friend. Get to know them well, and ask them out on a date. While on the date, take her hand, and stab a toothpick with your flag on it through her hand.
The best technique to get a girlfriend would be to approach more girls and beat the odds.
Do more real &_actual listening than talking.
Let her lead every now & then in things.
Give her space.
Recognize the ever true fact in life that there is only ONE Queen bee. Even discussion of another mutual female friend could lead to problems. Keep compliments to your love only & NOT to other women. Not even her best friend! Maybe even especially NEVER her best friend! (Only grief resides in breaking of this rule)
Do not be possessive or jealous. It’s a sure deal & relationship buster!
If you are a controlling person, just best you remain single! Only frustration & pain will lay ahead if you try.
Men do not change. Women do. Especially after giving birth. They mature & grow up a lot. Men just buy & play with just bigger & more expensive toys.
Women need lots of social action & drama in their lives.
A woman’s house is a direct manifestation of who she is. More than just a reflection like men. It is her nest, her vital responsibility. It is what she is. What she ho!ds dear. Her stronghold, fortress, and fashionably decorated cosmos. And it DOES CHANGE, just like herself. (hair style, hair color, clothing, trends, attitudes)
Roll with her changes. If you don’t, well guy, she just may find someone who will. Just sayin
If your probability of a girl saying yes is 1/10 (1 in 10) and you approach 2–3 girls, you would need to be lucky, but if you approach 100 girls, then you would have 10 potential candidates to choose from. If she doesn’t say ‘yes’, then also you can also choose to be friends with her and can ask her to introduce you to her friends (Research says that she will be more inclined to set you up as she declined your offer/request).
Let’s evaluate this technique:
From the previous point, your social circle will grow and the number of potential candidates to ask.
Your social skills will improve. You will start to notice things which girls usually like and things they don’t. You can experiment with these too.
Your confidence level near girls will improve.
If this works out, you can even try your hand in sales and marketing.
Most of the skills people suggest like be nice, sense of humour, being romantic, care for her etc. you will naturally catch on this.
True Story.
Now start the counter, learn from mistakes.
To begin with don’t see yourself as an inferior person. What turns on a woman is not a good looking man, but an intellectual, well read and a confident man.
You could be a ramp model, but how long can your good looks keep someone hooked on to you, when sooner or later your IQ levels will turn her off.
You are perfect husband and boyfriend material. You need to flaunt your talent. Make your presence felt, let your achievements speak for you and like the others have suggested, ask for help from her and offer help to her to decrease the distance and to get started. You have to charm her with what you have. Goooo guy go!!!
I would suggest that you should be kind to her, greet her in the mornings and afternoon and compliment her when you have an opportunity to and try to talk to her. some of us girls like to talk to someone to get to know them more deeply. girls don’t just look at your good looks, they also want to know your personality and understand where you come from. body language is also important. once you’ve gotten on the talking level, try and hold her hand or touch her shoulder if you happen to be walking past and greet her.
i hope this helped you and i wish you luck for catching your special lady
Take a challenge!
Start wooing for yourself. Can you? Doesn’t seem an easy option, but not harder than what you want to achieve.
You want to get noticed by your office girl but you have never noticed anything significant about yourself. Being nerd is okay ( sometimes more than just okay) but being jerk is totally unacceptable.
Work on yourself. Prepare yourself for yourself and if she fits in your circle when you are just yourself, she will automatically come in you love circle. If she doesn’t fit, she was not meant to be with you, Because even if somehow you impressed her by being someone else ( like what she wanted) , you might be able to get her temporarily but you will not be able to mask your face for longer period and once you uncover your own self, she will leave you for sure, feeling betrayed and hurt. Do you want that?
I hope you understand what I wanted to say.
To begin with don’t see yourself as an inferior person. What turns on a woman is not a good looking man, but an intellectual, well read and a confident man.
You could be a ramp model, but how long can your good looks keep someone hooked on to you, when sooner or later your IQ levels will turn her off.
You are perfect husband and boyfriend material. You need to flaunt your talent. Make your presence felt, let your achievements speak for you and like the others have suggested, ask for help from her and offer help to her to decrease the distance and to get started. You have to charm her with what you have. Goooo guy go!!!
I would suggest that you should be kind to her, greet her in the mornings and afternoon and compliment her when you have an opportunity to and try to talk to her. some of us girls like to talk to someone to get to know them more deeply. girls don’t just look at your good looks, they also want to know your personality and understand where you come from. body language is also important. once you’ve gotten on the talking level, try and hold her hand or touch her shoulder if you happen to be walking past and greet her.
i hope this helped you and i wish you luck for catching your special lady
Take a challenge!
Start wooing for yourself. Can you? Doesn’t seem an easy option, but not harder than what you want to achieve.
You want to get noticed by your office girl but you have never noticed anything significant about yourself. Being nerd is okay ( sometimes more than just okay) but being jerk is totally unacceptable.
Work on yourself. Prepare yourself for yourself and if she fits in your circle when you are just yourself, she will automatically come in you love circle. If she doesn’t fit, she was not meant to be with you, Because even if somehow you impressed her by being someone else ( like what she wanted) , you might be able to get her temporarily but you will not be able to mask your face for longer period and once you uncover your own self, she will leave you for sure, feeling betrayed and hurt. Do you want that?
I hope you understand what I wanted to say.
Here’s how you do it.
The first step is to become their friend. Get to know them well, and ask them out on a date. While on the date, take her hand, and stab a toothpick with your flag on it through her hand.
The best technique to get a girlfriend would be to approach more girls and beat the odds.
Do more real &_actual listening than talking.
Let her lead every now & then in things.
Give her space.
Recognize the ever true fact in life that there is only ONE Queen bee. Even discussion of another mutual female friend could lead to problems. Keep compliments to your love only & NOT to other women. Not even her best friend! Maybe even especially NEVER her best friend! (Only grief resides in breaking of this rule)
Do not be possessive or jealous. It’s a sure deal & relationship buster!
If you are a controlling person, just best you remain single! Only frustration & pain will lay ahead if you try.
Men do not change. Women do. Especially after giving birth. They mature & grow up a lot. Men just buy & play with just bigger & more expensive toys.
Women need lots of social action & drama in their lives.
A woman’s house is a direct manifestation of who she is. More than just a reflection like men. It is her nest, her vital responsibility. It is what she is. What she ho!ds dear. Her stronghold, fortress, and fashionably decorated cosmos. And it DOES CHANGE, just like herself. (hair style, hair color, clothing, trends, attitudes)
Roll with her changes. If you don’t, well guy, she just may find someone who will. Just sayin
If your probability of a girl saying yes is 1/10 (1 in 10) and you approach 2–3 girls, you would need to be lucky, but if you approach 100 girls, then you would have 10 potential candidates to choose from. If she doesn’t say ‘yes’, then also you can also choose to be friends with her and can ask her to introduce you to her friends (Research says that she will be more inclined to set you up as she declined your offer/request).
Let’s evaluate this technique:
From the previous point, your social circle will grow and the number of potential candidates to ask.
Your social skills will improve. You will start to notice things which girls usually like and things they don’t. You can experiment with these too.
Your confidence level near girls will improve.
If this works out, you can even try your hand in sales and marketing.
Most of the skills people suggest like be nice, sense of humour, being romantic, care for her etc. you will naturally catch on this.
True Story.
Now start the counter, learn from mistakes.
